Over 16,532,532 people are on fubar.
What are you waiting for?
Well, I feel compelled to write this blog for various reasons. Not only to educate anyone who doesn't know me or talk to me but to also clear some things up.
I have been on this site for over 11 years. I met my ex husband on here and have always had a connection with Fubar. I was serving 3 years of home detention when I discovered this place. It was my escape from the reality of being confined and being able to make friends and have fun. I have ALWAYS been real, I do not lie, cheat or steal to be "popular". A lot of my good friends have come and gone but many are still here, thankfully.
I have had my share of fu breaks and I still tend to find myself coming back. I took 3 years off during my divorce and pregnancy with my son and the 1st year of his life. Once I got the hang of being a new mother, I felt comfortable coming back. I had a completely different outlook and I didn't want to be involved in any type of drama, since I was involved in a mess ton of drama over the years, I have grown and matured.
That brings me to the reason I'm writing this blog. To set the record straight about what some may hear or to those who repeat RUMORS that others have made up.
Yes the following items have been spread about me:
1. I do not, nor have I ever, done drugs. I am NOT a recovering meth addict. The ONLY "drug" I have ever done was weed. Which in my opinion is NOT even a drug. No I did not do a video smoking crack, if you see this video, please enlighten me and show me, because it NEVER happened.
2. I have never been sexually abused by a family member. And I do not have "daddy issues".
3. Yes I do NSFW, I have since 2011 and nothing anyone says about me doing so will stop me, trust me I've been called many names and shamed. But I have my reasons why I do it and that is not anyone's business but my own.
4. I do not run anyone's page on fubar. I do not have anyone's log in but my own. I certainly do not control anyone and tell them how to spend their credits or money. I do not demand they run their page my way. IT'S THEIR MONEY, THEIR PAGE AND IT'S NOT MY BUSINESS.
5. I do have friends who bling me privately, and those same friends WILL tell me if anyone is speaking on me and calling me out of my character, so beware, you may be venting to one of my friends when you are angry about a bling I just received.
With that all being said, it may fall on deaf ears since people tend to want to believe what they want to about a person, especially if that person is someone they dislike. But I am right here, I'm not going anywhere. If you have a problem with ME, come to ME...don't be scared. And trust me I know way more than many think I do, I just choose to not get caught up in drama and I let some go ignorant to what I know they say about me.
I am a good hearted, honest, trustworthly person. If you dislike me only because of blings or credits without actually talking to me, then you are apart of the problem. Jealousy don't reside on my page. I really do not care who gets what and if I don't get more than someone else, I appreciate each and every gift I receive and I do not treat others as a personal bling/credit ATM.
Thank you for reading.
Have fun fu... April
