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Starting off 2010 with the most amazing...wonderful...handsome...funny...romantic "man-friend" I could ever hope for...Check him out...rate him...fan him...and keep him drunk...LoL...he is my number 1 friend and family...


This is not my original profile on here...my old one was deleted by my soon to be ex husband when he was angry at me...I had it for 2 years and I am only upset because I can't seem to find all my old friends and all the bling they wasted money on is gone...I created a new profile because I enjoy it on fubar and I have a lot of great friends here...I also like to make new friends and this is an easy place to do so...I am not going to go into details about my personal life on here...if we are friends then you know what is going on...if we aren't then it's not important...I am not here to whore it up for points or to get male attention...I am a month out of a 2 year relationship and I am not ready to think about anything beyond friendship right now...(with one exception but he is special)...I do not want or need drama and I will not tolerate it...If you are on my page to cause problems then take it somewhere else...

I am a single mother of 6 children...right now only 2 live with me...2 are staying with their aunt and the two oldest live with their father...I will not put ANYone before my children ever again...I will not involve anyone in their lives because they have been hurt enough...I am trying to rebuild our lives and it is not easy...I don't have a lot of spare time but when I do I prefer to spend it with my children...I don't go out much and I hate being around drunks...I do not do drugs but I agree that marijuana should be legal...I cannot stand racists...judging someone by their color of skin is just WRONG! I also have many gay friends and I will not tolerate gay bashing...People who believe what they hear without checking it out first need to have their heads examined...You cannot judge someone based on one person's opinion of them...There are two sides to EVERY story...I love all music except polka and dico...Horror movies are the best but a good comedy is always awesome!! I will not talk politics...abortion or religion so don't ask...This is a website I like to play around on...its not real life therefore it is not that important to me...I can and will shut it off and walk away at any time...So if this place is reality to you we may not get along and maybe you should just go away now without adding me or talking to me...Anyhow...that is all I can think of for now...so if you read all this and still want to add me then please do...

I will tell you right now that there are a lot of fake people on here...people who use this site to pretend to be something they cannot be in real life...And after this last two years I have come to realize that the internet is not some place to meet someone...I have done it...and it was not a very good experience...Maybe after months and months of talking (online and the phone) you might have an idea of what they are like...and meeting them in person after a year or so...But to just fall head over ass "in love" with someone based solely on what they have told you is stupidity at its finest...And to be with someone who is fresh out of relationship...OMG...come on...how can they go from one to another that quickly and it be "REAL"?? Granted this is just my opinion but I know lots of others who can share similar stories...I hate to see it happen to anyone else and I wish I had the answers as to how to insure it won't...But right now I am picking up the pieces of my own heart and those of my children and trying to get my life back together...Just please talk to those who truly have met the person you are "with" listen to what they have to say...protect yourself!!!