I know that's blasphemous at best and sacriligeous at worst...I was married for a year, now we are getting divorced, because of a situation his family created. Today I went on his myspace page and he had already listed himself as divorced (we don't even have a separation agreement!), changed all his photos with me, and removed me as a friend. Two can play at that so I did the same. But that wasn't satisfying enough. Since we got married under a Jewish ketubah, and it's now broken, I think I'm going to rip it to shreds. There will be no Jewish home here, nor any religion for that matter. Now I'm off to do the shredding...