Ok maybe i need to reword this a little.. those with kids and major jobs need to be private.. i am not saying those should be open for all to see..
the main thing i am saying is that say you don't have kids or talk about your kids.. and all you do is just vent about the life you have now whether it be with your signifigant other or just everyday things that may or may not make you mad, upset, happy... stuff like that.
I just don't see the purpose for hiding behind a profile unless you are under age or the other above mentioned things... Why hide yourself and have the profile and not let people view it to see if they wanted to talk with you or if they may have things in common with you... its not that i am saying for everyone to not talk.. or not hide their profile.. its just when you go surfing profiles and you come across one that is set to private though that person may be in your area doesn't it just make you wonder.. what they might be hiding that they have it set to private???
Thats all i am saying.