Hi there friends it has been a good long while sence my last blog soo here goes 1 that I have had to deal with and of course alot of you also .
I made a friend 1 day on yahoo name with with held of course and yes shes female her and I use to hang out alot when I had my cam on my old home comp before I got my laptop we use to do voice chats at times she even had my cell she was a cool friend nothin ever came serious between us just friends soo she finnaly met a guy who took her to the prom that was all ok the real problem is that afterwards they got together.
Now the hard stuff soo they hung out some and all at times she sent me pix via cell or sent me messages via yahoo let me know that she had a man and all and they was tryin to make things happen and all ok thats fine and dandy no probs about 2 weeks ago I sent her a message via cell sayin. I hope you 2 are doin ok and all is well
about 10 mins later not sure if it was her or him most likely it was him pretending to be her sent me a message saying .
Don't ever message me again and im happy where im at and what im doing of course this hit me like a break wall wow . I thought like damn where did this come from and why of course I sent a message back of course asking what happened and what did I do wrong to you or what have I ever done a few mins later again message well I dont have to explain my self and you need to leave me alone and dont bother me ever again I told this woman wow ok . il do as you ask and that was it. sence then I have not heard from here via cell on everyones all time fav site now fubar or even myspace or even yahoo its like she just disapeared and I know he has something to do with it all ..
The main point about all this is I have alot of friends on this site even ones I have known going on a couple of yrs now I wont name any names but you know who you are and know me pretty good now too . but the thing is we all are looking for love or wanting love and or needing love from another counter part of course but the real deal is no woman she or needs to be controled by a man told what to do who she can talk to and who she can hang out with that is very disrespectful .
I been treated bad in the past by friends and even x g/f's but still today I cant treat a woman bad no way. please all who ever you have or are with dont let them run over you and use you and treat you bad control you. life is hard and short enough as it is dont let the person your with destroy your life and shelter you..
I hope this blog was not to hard or harsh maybe .thank you all who reads this .. your friend as always ... Jay
