guidomedic's blog: "~Real Love is Simple~"

~10 GOLDEN RULES for staying Happy with the One You Love~ My continued efforts to help nurture and spread Love in a World full of Negative and Misunderstanding.....I spoke with a precious friend of mine today and love was mentioned. This friend is going thru heartache right now from her situation and I feel for all that have felt heartache from words that were hollow or deception used. In the midst of our talk she wrote something that struck a Resonating chord in me.....she was able to gleen the True Essence of Real Love in her words.....I will share these with you now as I will not be using her name....here goes...... " I just don't understand why this love stuff has to be so hard. It seems easy to me. > > > > Man loves woman. > > Woman loves man. > > They treat each other with respect and have a lot of sex! > > > > Happily ever after! > > > > hehehe. > > > > BUT NO, everyone else has to make it sooooo damn difficult." I found these words to be Provocative Profound and I hope you do as well........... ~1. First and Foremost.....LOVE EACH OTHER. Say "I LOVE YOU" often and in different ways. DO things to keep Your Love and Romance New and Alive. DON'T take love for Granted......EVER..... ~2. LISTEN Objectively to each other...and Accept each other COMPLETELY. Give each other the Right to Disagree and to have Different Opinions..... ~3. NEVER stop treating each other like Sweethearts. Talk to each other as Sweethearts and do things that Sweethearts do. DON'T let External Values have More Importance than the Internal Feelings of Your Heart...... ~4. Take CARE of each other. Put the Other One FIRST. But don't neglect your own needs either. DO things that show You're Interested in Your Partner's Needs, Desires and Problems...... ~5. Be JOYFUL that You've each made a COMMITMENT to the Other...thru sickness and health and Everything else. Be THANKFUL You're in this Life TOGETHER..... ~6. TALK about Things TOGETHER. REFUSE to say ANYTHING NEGATIVE about Your Partner. NEVER BETRAY each Other's SECRETS. Keep your own Identity, but Walk Together as ONE...... ~7. SETTLE the fact that You've made Your CHOICE and You're NO LONGER LOOKING for ANYONE Else. DON'T FLIRT!! Think of the CONSEQUENCES. Don't Consider It..... ~8. Be in AGREEMENT about how Your Money is spent. Big Items should have the Approval of Both. Talk about how to Manage Your Finances. ~9 Treat each other as You would want to be Treated. If You've Argued, NEVER go to sleep at night Without asking the Other's FORGIVENESS. Be FAITHFUL about this. DO what will make YOU BOTH the Happiest and be the BEST for your Relationship..... ~10 Last but Never Least....HAVE FUN!!!!! Peace....