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BBW *Ugh* ~*~ http://fubar.com/blog/331898/1122891~*~
Over the years I have heard all the names and been left out of all sorts of things due to the size of my clothes, but lately I have really been thinking about a term use on the internet that I believe is overly used. BBW, big beautiful woman.
There are many different people in this world of all different shapes, sizes, and colors, and just because you are of one of them does not mean you are more beautiful then the person you stand next to. So why is it that because you are a big, plus size, woman you are automatically beautiful? This I do not understand, but I am sure someone out there in the world is someone who does understand it, because the term has came to be and very popular at that.
I, personally really dis like the term. I don't think people should drawl attention to themselves by putting labels on themselves and/or others. Yes I am a bigger woman, yes I shop at plus size stores, but I don't want to be called BBW. If a man (or woman) tells me at the get go that they like my, 'big sexy ass,' I am going to delete the message and not look back. Tell me I'm hot, I'm sexy, I'm beautiful, but don't bring my size into, that just counteract the complement you were trying to make in the first place.
So I am going to urge the fine people of this site to stop using the term BBW, big beautiful woman, because it counteract the complement you are trying to pay to the woman.
