GR82BME's blog: "PLEASE READ"

Please forgive me, i am going to ramble a bit. I am so frustrated that if I had hair I would be pulling it out. First off, a little background,. The reasons I am no longer with my wife is that I reached the end of a long, long rope. For years we didn't get a long well. Sure there were some reaspnable times, but we were NOT happy with each other. She has some psychological problems and I ran out of the ability to be me and identify her also. I know that may not make any sense, but it comes down to ; I couldn't even go to work without being caalled 20 times a day and if I left work not at exactly when she thought I should, she would be on the phone screaming at me, and pacing up and down the driveway until I got there. But that's not what I'm trying to get off my chest now. Her mother is in failing health. She no longer jas the strength to be by herself and because I am not a complete ogre, I have told my wife, (since i live about 20 minutes closer than she does or her brother) that if there is a problem, let me know and I will go over and pick her up if she falls and help if i can. I understand that this can be trying, even for a 50 year old woman (my ex), but her mother is getting old and thety are trying to get her into a care facility of some sort. I got a call about an hour and a half ago that the MIL was stuck and couldn't get up. My ex called and asked if i coul meet her there to help get her up. I got there and the first thing she said was what was I doing. i told her I had just finished dinner--she said __with who? It really is none of her business but I told her I was alone. Then she asked if i had a "hot date that she was keeping me from,. Then I said that later I was going to go dancing with my dance club-- (after I left, I started dance lessons and belong to a swing and hustle dance club now)--and she started accusing me of things-then said she missed me and asked if i missed her-I said "let's not go there" a, gave her a supportive hug because she was crying about her mother, told her to take care and left. Ten minutes later, my daughter calls up SCREAMING at me for being mean to her mother--I DIDN"T DO ANYTHING!!!!!! She wonders why I left---unfortunately, it boils down to her being an unstable person and I can't deal with it anymore--I tried for twenty eight years--and I am tired!!! Sorry, I just needed to get this off my chest

I WOULD LIKE TO THANK MY FRIEND "Redhotlustlife" for her permission to repost this blog--it coontains my sentiments exactly and I could not have stated these things any better: 13 CherryTap Rules - Repost Oct 31st, 2006 ONE If you're ugly, stop acting like you don't know it. Also cover yourself up no one wants to see your shit. The captions under your picture that say "top model pose" "sexy bitch" "aren't i hot" doesn't convince anyone. TWO To the people who have like 25,000 friends, are you serious? Nobody in this universe can keep up with that many friends. You're stupid. Go play in traffic. THREE Don't ever post pictures and say "OMG, I'm so ugly" "OMG, I'm so fat" because if you were, you wouldn't post them. You're pathetic, stop begging for attention. FOUR Nobody cares about threats over the internet. Don't try to act hardcore with the keyboard. Fighting online is like racing in the special olympics... even if you win, you're still retarded. FIVE Making 20 bulletins a day about how you have new pictures and begging people to comment on them is pathetic. Make the bulletin once if you have to, and those who actually care about you will comment on your pics. SIX If all your pictures look the same, don't post them all. Please put some variety in your pics. Nobody wants to see your face 8 different ways. SEVEN Who really cares if I don't accept you as a friend? MOVE ON!!! Don't send me another request or message asking "what's up with you not adding me?" I don't want you as a friend; that's what's up! EIGHT Little 6th graders who have CherryTap and look like sluts, go somewhere else because nobody wants you here. Go play with the children on MySpace. NINE I never judge race, sex, or age... but please if you aren't at least 21 don't bother trying to add me or e-mail me. I'm probably as old as your Parents already. Ten (Sorry this is my biggest Bitch) Collecting Votes... gimme a break. I know this site is all about points and reaching higher levels. That's cool and it's fun, but keep it fun. Don't go around soliciting my vote. I don't give a shit about your vote if you're going to try to make me feel guilty for getting it. I did this for me and me alone. So don't tell me you voted for me and would I return the favor. Trust me I won't, but if I did I wouldn't tell you anyway. Don't be shocked if I suddenly start giving you a ton of points. It's probably because I felt we have something in common or you are one of the few people on here who are intelligent enough to just be yourself and be real. ELEVEN If you have decided to read this, you are a REAL "CherryTap" Friend. Real friends read their bulletins. Real friends won't be offended by this and will probably be laughing and agreeing. TWELVE My challenge to you... I say you go and pass this on and maybe it will finally get through people's brains (if they have them). So feel free to copy and paste it as a blog or bulletin on your site. THIRTEEN And if you open a bulletin and it says something like "repost this in 10 seconds or a ghost will rape your dog tonight, " IT'S NOT REAL!!!!!!!!! QUIT BEING AN IDIOT !!!!!!!! AND PLEASE DON'T FORWARD THE SHIT TO ME!!!!! Thanks again Red!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!