What's wrong with monogamy?
Nothing.
So why don't you want it?
For those whose relationship inclinations lean toward polyamory, a poly relationship offers more. When you have more than two people involved in your relationship, it offers you resources and perspectives that you don't have in a monogamous relationship. If one person is feeling down, or has a probelm, that person has two, or more, people to turn to for support. With more eyes on a relationship problem or problem at work or whatever, sometimes the solution is easier to find.
And it's great for your sex life.
I'm creative in bed. On my better days, I like to think I'm very creative in bed. But the fact is, no human being has seen or done it all; in fact, no human geing can even begin to scratch the surface of of Cool Things To Do In Bed. We have six billion people on the planet right now, and thirty thousnad years of recorded human history behind us. Someone, somewhere, has thought of something that you would absolutely love, but you'll never think of youself.
I've learned a lot of things from each of my lovers, both in and out of the bedroom, that I have been able to take with me into my other relationships. Not even just new techniques, but sometime new ways of looking at things. These things have enriched all my relationships, and my life.
It may not even be what you're thinking. Not all poly people are into group sex. There are polyamorous individuals ho've never had a threesome. Being poly doesn't necessarily make you kinky. NOr dose it mean that you're into orgies, or that you're promiscuous, or that you want to boink everyone you meet. For polyfidelitous people, being poly really isn't that much different from being monogamous. Polyamory also doesn't make you bisexual; in a polyamorous relationship, all the people involved.(The idea of being a guy in the middle of hot girl-on-girl action is a cliche as old as time, but don't think polyamory is automatically going to get you there.)
