Why do we as people have such a need/want to over-complicate things? If things that you are feeling feel real, then maybe you should just go w/ that. They always say that you 1st instinct/gut feeling is always the best 1. That's probably why so many relationships FAIL. Instead of being straight up & honest some people; either do to having been hurt previously or some sick sense of needing to control others; lie & say things that they really never meant or as i have said previously LACKED THE GUTS TO SAY WHATS REALLY ON THEIR MIND. JUST BE HONEST W/ OTHERS & DON'T LEAD PEOPLE ON.