I think its sad that for the most part great relationships have became a thing of the past.I mean shure you see the occasional couple that lasts a really long time but for the most part it has became a short term thing.I gues its because people no longer wanna work things out sometimes.They just dump the person there with and get somebody new.I have seen people that change who they are dateing like they change there clothes.
I guess theres allot of things to blame for how things are now.My theory it has something to do with what I call the vicious cycle most times.Its where either a guy or girl burns the person they are with.That person being hurt treats the next they date in the same manner they was treated burning them.Makeing them pay for something they never did in the first place.The whole burn them before they can me thought pattern.
The thought crossed my mind about the value
people put on others.Looking at them for the wrong qualities and not the right ones.Then later wondering why things didn't work right.Just because a person looks a certain way or talks a certain way doesn't mean there good people.Sad to say but theres people that will tell you what you wanna hear just to get what they want.Then of course burn you soon after and move on.
The game is played on both sides and is not in any way fair to either.I Think the words "I love you" have been so overly used that its lost allot of its meaning.In some cases theres people that dunno even what it means and say it anyway.Just don't think its something that should be throw around if its not meant.Just play things straight.The headache and the drama you would safe yourself from going through in the end by lieing would be worth it.
