I love to learn! Constantly looking for new things! Thus, I read lots...and like to get into the community lots, too, doing all kinds of different things some of which may seem rather disparate---such as....i've had days wherein i've attended a PTA event, with a nice buffet being served, but then...later that night, have attended a nice BDSM event, and you can probably imagine what got "served" there

BUT---i've always played lotsa different sports....primarily tennis & basketball, and i like to stay in good shape via working out, too---and......."other" cardiovascular activities it's just---my physical body being in shape has always been quintessential to "me"...being healthy.

Last but not least is how I express myself. From the ages of 8 to 24, I was an AVID musician, learning to play piano, trumpet, ALL different kinds of guitars, and singing...and I learned to read & write music when I was young, from my piano teacher, Ms. Aaron. Making music---and writing it, too---became almost obsessive for me thru my high school and college years------and when I played my 1st show, with a band.......THAT became, for me, what I strived to do, in life----buuut, then i had a HUGE motorcycle wreck which changed everything! My life, for one, hung in the balance, for a while...but, after 2 weeks unconscious---I finally woke to find the entire right half of my body was suddenly MUCH less able to function properly....luckily, I was left handed, but my ability to play guitar had, still, been hugely impaired, and so......i gave up----and began...to write............writing letters & such has always been a nice way for me to enunciate subtleties...about my feelings, to those I care about...but now---I found that I NEEDED to express my pent up musical-self SOMEHOW...and so, i decided to start making a point----of expressing myself, both verbally & literally, with words...collections of letters...mere marks, of black on white....but somehow, I was still able to SAY things, the WAY i wanted to say them, by writing...ANNNND---by speaking, face to face, with people who just needed to talk--to someone. Since my degree was in psychology, THIS---was what i did, for years & years, after college...and it truly WAS both work----and expression...more later maybe