September 6th, 2007
I only got like 4 hours sleep I was up talking to Kathy... Oh yeah!
So my phone rings at like 10am, and it is like my friend the reverend. She says that she has a letter from her husband and the engagement ring is left behind. Mind you also I never leave my phone on ring but tonight I left my phone on ring and it went off like 3x in a 5 minute period My first thought was like umm...... Suicide, At the same time all this stuff is going on I am talking to a wonderful lady Kathy. Kathy and I were supposed to go out for lunch in the afternoon after talking all night the night before. But we did not, I instead am looking for a suicidal drug addict who stole his wifes van and sold it for his own personal amusement. He has a hotel room for a week and planned on killing himself. This is the first time I met The Reverends Husband and The Reverend is talking to me telepathically on how to bring her husband out of this stage of where he wants to kill himself and get him to talk to us. So about 6 hours go by and we are making a little bit of progress he finally admits to us he has a problem and wishes to seek help. We leave the motel and take everyone back home for some much needed sleep, I then go ahead and finally go on my date with Kathy at 10:30 pm @ BW3
September 7th
5am the next morning, I am still with Kathy and I decide that I have to go home and take my parents to the airport so they can go to Florida. 8am rolls around and I still have not gotten any sleep and I have to go the Reverends house and watch her son so that we can admit my friend into rehab. The Reverend comes back about 6 hours later and finally at about 2:30 pm I go home. Kathy tells me to get some sleep but I had plans, we went to City Club along with my friend Dave and his date Jennifer (Who later gets admitted to the Psych Ward) Yeah two psych ward admits in less than a week. To The City Club we go.
September 8th
Kathy and I wake up at about 10:00 am we are at the apartment after a great night at City Club & Kathy goes to work and I get some sleep, take care of my dogs and take care of Kathy at work. Back to the City Club we go Jennifer drinks 3 pitchers of beer and a few mixed drinks and ends up in the bathroom for about 2 hours and Chernoble takes her home with Raven.
September 9th
Kathy works and I hang out at her work a little bit, I bring her food and just hang out with her and make sure she is ok
September 10th -12th
Counseling With The Reverend and working through our issues I come to grips with the loss of my best friend Jason and realize he was an addict and addicts are not bad people, they are just sick.. My road to helping The Reverend truly begins and she teaches me how to help her and her husband. Jennifer Gets Admitted to Psych ward with help of police after telling us she had intentions of killing herself with pills.
September 13th - September 18th
Spending lots of time with The Reverend and Kathy is in Philadelphia working on getting her life in order and working. God I miss her so much. Kathy comes home at about 6:30 am the morning of September 18th after getting lost in our land to the north Canada. Kathy comes home we are both afarid of what being apart will do to us and she comes home and we are closer than ever. The reverend then says that we will be living together anyday and married within 6 months.. God .... I see Kathy with no makeup and I need to keep my control.
September 19th - September 21st
More time with The Reverend making more progress about her husband and at about prolly 250 hours of contact time with our group (that is right) (being at The Reverends House for about 250 hours that is an average of about 15 to 16 hours a day over this period of time) My mother meets my girlfriend and says she is a slut, tramp, whore and everything else in between. September 21st in the AM I confront her on this issue and she says she never wants to get close to another girl after what Danielle did to me. (Get Over It Mom.. I Did) (We also confronted Jenn on her addictive behavior that took about 9 hours)
September 21st
5:30 pm Kathy finally comes to my house.. We agree we are not hanging out with anyone til monday the 24th just being by ourselves.
That is how I have spent my last 2.5 weeks
Peace Out
Ken