This was a piece of advice recently sent to me by a dear friend that made me really think and really take a good look at what is going on in my life.
I want to tell him thank you in so many ways, but to make sure he knows I listened and I am thinking hard I posted iT here as a reminder of what I have in my friends and that they are true treasures to me.
Pammy, I don't mean this in a bad way, but I guess it might just be me, but no married man will ever be able to make you happy. When I said I wished you could come here to Moline and have lunch with me and what ever else happened, there is no way that I could have ever made you happy or gave you what you need. From our messages, I can just tell that you have alot to offer a man. But I really feel that you need someone who doesn't have other things in his life.
I hope that you will still be my friend on myspace if I tell you this, but I not only from personal experience, but from the Psychology classes that I took in college, and from speeches given by experts, and I hope that you have heard these, but a womans body and brain, is programed on color and emotion, so flowers, and promises are what supposedly a woman loves and a man is just a spur of the moment and nothing but a, how should I put this, what ever I can do to feel her wet pussy on my cock, thing.
So I guess, what I am trying to say is that married men, can really fuck up a womans self esteem by promising things, just to get what they want. I know that not all married men would do this, but the percentage is only 2% that would actually in a committed relationship last in a longterm.
So Pammy I guess that what I am trying to say is, make your self happy with your descisions, and don't believe any mans words to make you happy unless it would be 5 years down the road and he proved his point on what he ment about his promises. I will close this, but not only have I seen these things I said, but I seen my mom and other family members that are females go through things with men. And although we have never met, you are one of the people here on THE INTERNET that I really feel like I can spill my guts to, and I feel like you are one of my honest friends on here, and I know that if I was face to face with you, you are a person that I feel so strongly about that, I care what happens to you, I think because you are so open and honest.
Pammy, I will close for now and I hope that I was only giving you advise and not sounding like a jerk.
I hope I will talk to ya later. With all of my heart, and thinking about you, Carl. Please message me back.
