The most important people in a marriage are not the husband and wife--it is the kids. I have yet to meet a lawyer, judge or anyone else who gives a shit about the kids. Our kids are the next generation. They are the ones who are going to take care of us when we get old. The fucking courts don't give a damn even if both parents have joint custody. Kids need both biological parents in their lives to love and raise them, not the courts telling one or the other that they can't be a parent to their own kids. Fuck the courts and put the kids first.