I'm afraid that being brutally honest will probably be my downfall.
I feel like if I don't make myself clear from the get-go, then I have those awkward moments later when the subject arises.
You would not believe how many men have emailed me, wanting me to help raise their small kids. Now granted, I was a good Mom, my girls are normal, happy and well-adjusted. But I am not one of those that has an eternal maternal instinct. I did not go through "empty-nest syndrome". I can truly say that I don't want to do that all over again. It is now time for me to kick back and let the grandchildren flow!
I have been told over and over again that my stand on not wanting more children will turn alot of men away. Really?? Well then, those are the men I DON'T want. What everyone fails to remember is that I am damn near 50 years old. Do I want to be going to high school graduations when I'm 70?? HELL NO! Do I want to walk my youngest step child down the aisle in a fuckin wheelchair? FUCK NO! Do I want to go through all that again?? Ain't gonna happen!!!
So if you are a man and you are turned off by the fact that I don't want ANY more kids in my life, well then, I'm not the one for you.
Ok, rant over. Well, actally, this wasn't a rant, more like a clarification!
Rock On Baby!!
XOXO
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