KEEPING IT REAL
I know that what I'm about to post here is going to upset a few people, and I know a couple for fact that it will......you both know who you are. I'm not trying to offend anyone here; I'm just stating how I feel about certain things. Sorry, I'm calling it as I see it.
I'm the type of woman who keeps it real in all aspects with all of those that I come into contact with. And I expect the same in return. But there are those who say that they keep it real, and do, but then there are those who still like to play games. All I ask is that if we have a relationship, any type of relationship, Just Keep It Real.
Don't get me wrong, we all have our separate lives and sometimes it's hard to do everything we say we're going to do. But if you have established a certain type of relationship with someone, then you should try to make sure that the other person doesn't feel as though they aren't as important to you anymore. Relationships, no matter what type, take alot of work but it takes BOTH parties working hard to keep it alive. Both have to be understanding and patient with the other but one should never, ever make the other feel as though they are the only one that wants to make the relationship work. Actions speak alot louder than words.
I believe that every person should live by their actions and not by just their words alone because anybody can talk a good game. But the question is, can they back up their words with their actions??
Something to ponder.........if you keep putting off the one that you say that you love and care about for whatever else in your life, and I don't mean children work, or school; I'm talking about other people and other things, do you expect them to still be around when you decide that you have time for them? And why do you get mad when they tell you that you are hurting them by treating them this way?? Maybe this is your way of letting the other person know in a round-a-bout way that they aren't as important to you as you say they are.........hmmmmmmmm??
Just remember, what happens in the dark always comes to light. And you should always treat others as you want to be treated..........Karma is a BITCH!!!
