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I Believe

 

Have a seat....relax...and read this slowly.

It kind a sums it all up..........

I believe - That we don't have to change friends
if we understand that friends change.

I believe - That no matter how good a friend is, they're
going to hurt you every once in a while and
you must forgive them for that.

I believe - That true friendship continues to grow, even
over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.

I believe - That you can do something in an instant
that will give you heartache for life.
I believe - That it's taking me a long time to become
the person I want to be.

I believe - That you should always leave loved ones
with loving words. It may be the last time
you see them.

I believe - That you can keep going long after you think you can't.

I believe - That we are responsible for what we do, no
matter how we feel.

I believe - That either you control your attitude or it
controls you.

I believe - That regardless of how hot and steamy a
relationship is at first, the passion fades and
there had better be something else to take its place.

I believe - That heroes are the people who do what has
to be done when it needs to be done, regardless
of the consequences.

I believe - That money is a lousy way of keeping score.

I believe - That my best friend and I can do anything or
nothing and have the best time.

I believe - That sometimes the people you expect to kick
you when you're down, will be the ones to help
you get back up.

I believe - That sometimes when I'm angry I have the
right to be angry, but that doesn't give me
the right to be cruel.

I believe - That just because someone doesn't love you
the way you want them to doesn't mean they
don't love you with all they have.

I believe - That maturity has more to do with what types
of experiences you've had and what you've learned
from them and less to do with how many birthdays
you've celebrated.

I believe - That it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others.
Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.

I believe - That no matter how bad your heart is broken the
world doesn't stop for your grief.

I believe - That our background and circumstances may have
influenced who we are, but we are responsible for
who we become.

I believe - That just because two people argue, it doesn't mean
they don't love each other. And just because they don't
argue, it doesn't mean they do.

I believe - That you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret.
It could change your life forever.

I believe - That two people can look at the exact same thing
and see something totally different.

I believe - That your life can be changed in a matter of hours
by people who don't even know you.

I believe - That even when you think you have no more to
give, when a friend cries out to you - you will find
the strength to help.

I believe - That credentials on the wall do not make you a
decent human being.

I believe - That the people you care about most in life are
taken from you too soon.

A strong lady knows how to keep her life in line.

With tears in her eyes, she still manages to say, "Nah, I'm fine."

WHAT IS LOVE?? Here are a few things I believe love is. 1. "Love is a hard rock between two people and can't be torn apart." 2. "Love is a beautiful red rose given for no apparent reason." 3. "Love is a fire that reigns in the heart." 4. "Love is like a river, never ending as it flows, but gets greater with time!" 5. "Love is like swallowing hot chocolate before it has cooled off. It takes you by surprise at first, but keeps you warm for a long time." 6. "Love is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It's not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till the end." 7. "Love is a journey not a destination." 8. "Love is blind but after experiencing it for a long time you should become familiar with some particular spots." 9. "Love is a precious gift that you receive, and you need to give it with caution!" 10. "Love is happiness given back and forth." 11. "Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies."

A Good Black Man Good Black Men are indeed all around us. We pass them on the streets, in the malls, and at work. Most we can't see because we don't know what a good man really looks like. He usually isn't flashy enough or rich enough to turn our heads. He might not wear a suit or push a Lexus. He might not have a body like Tyson with a Denzel face. But, as you mature, you realize it's better to find someone who's got your back rather than someone who turns your head. A good man doesn't agree wholeheartedly with everything you say. He doesn't just tell you what you want to hear and do the opposite. He doesn't declare how sensitive, sweet, caring, sincere, etc. he is (he won't have to because it shows). He has his own opinions and yours may clash, but he doesn't have to degrade you to prove he's right. He even admits at times to being wrong, especially if you are willing to do the same. A good man is not going to meet every item on your checklist. He is human with frailties and faults mixed in with all of his wonderful, strong attributes. He needs your love and respect. He needs to feel that you don't live to catch him doing something wrong so you can declare, "Aha! I knew you were a dog!" A good man isn't insecure about his woman having great achievements. In fact, he is her number one supporter and becomes disappointed with her when she begins to lose herself, especially for the sake of not hurting his feelings, or only wanting to make him happy. His happiness comes with seeing her excel in her dreams and accomplishing her goals. For as she excels and is exalted, a good woman will bring her good man right along with her. A good man doesn't necessarily give you a huge birthday or Valentine's gift. He shows his love in the ways that are comfortable to him. Don't judge him by TV standards. No one is really living a fairy tale. You'll miss out on your own fairy tale by buying into the myth that our men are no good. It's just not true. A good black man is a man of his word. He says what he means and means what he says. His word is his bond. He never leaves you wondering if he is going to call or show up - he is dependable. A good black man has a love and a heart for God (Jesus). As his relationship and love with and for God grows so will his relationship and love with and for you grow... Our beautiful black men we salute you, appreciate you and thank you for who you are and all you've done.

KEEPING IT REAL I know that what I'm about to post here is going to upset a few people, and I know a couple for fact that it will......you both know who you are. I'm not trying to offend anyone here; I'm just stating how I feel about certain things. Sorry, I'm calling it as I see it. I'm the type of woman who keeps it real in all aspects with all of those that I come into contact with. And I expect the same in return. But there are those who say that they keep it real, and do, but then there are those who still like to play games. All I ask is that if we have a relationship, any type of relationship, Just Keep It Real. Don't get me wrong, we all have our separate lives and sometimes it's hard to do everything we say we're going to do. But if you have established a certain type of relationship with someone, then you should try to make sure that the other person doesn't feel as though they aren't as important to you anymore. Relationships, no matter what type, take alot of work but it takes BOTH parties working hard to keep it alive. Both have to be understanding and patient with the other but one should never, ever make the other feel as though they are the only one that wants to make the relationship work. Actions speak alot louder than words. I believe that every person should live by their actions and not by just their words alone because anybody can talk a good game. But the question is, can they back up their words with their actions?? Something to ponder.........if you keep putting off the one that you say that you love and care about for whatever else in your life, and I don't mean children work, or school; I'm talking about other people and other things, do you expect them to still be around when you decide that you have time for them? And why do you get mad when they tell you that you are hurting them by treating them this way?? Maybe this is your way of letting the other person know in a round-a-bout way that they aren't as important to you as you say they are.........hmmmmmmmm?? Just remember, what happens in the dark always comes to light. And you should always treat others as you want to be treated..........Karma is a BITCH!!!

Don't read without tissues because it will make you cry if you have a heart.. Her hair was up in a pony tail, her favorite dress tied with a bow. Today was Daddy's Day at school, and she couldn't wait to go. But her mommy tried to tell her, that she probably should stay home. Why the kids might not understand, if she went to school alone. But she was not afraid; she knew just what to say. What to tell her classmates of why he wasn't there today. But still her mother worried, for her to face this day alone. And that was why once again, she tried to keep her daughter home. But the little girl went to school eager to tell them all. About a dad she never sees; a dad who never calls. There were daddies along the wall in back, for everyone to meet. Children squirming impatiently, anxious in their seats One by one the teacher called a student from the class. To introduce their daddy, as seconds slowly passed. At last the teacher called her name, every child turned to stare. Each of them was searching, for a man who wasn't there. "Where's her daddy at?" she heard a boy call out. "She probably doesn't have one," another student dared to shout. And from somewhere near the back, she heard a daddy say, "Looks like another deadbeat dad, too busy to waste his day." The words did not offend her, as she smiled up at her Mom. And looked back at her teacher, who told her to go on. And with hands behind her back, slowly she began to speak. And out from the mouth of a child, came words incredibly unique. "My Daddy couldn't be here, because he lives so far away. But I know he wishes he could be, since this is such a special day. And though you cannot meet him, I wanted you to know. All about my daddy, and how much he loves me so. He loved to tell me stories he taught me to ride my bike. He surprised me with pink roses, and taught me to fly a kite. We used to share fudge sundaes, and ice cream in a cone. And though you cannot see him. I'm not standing here alone. "Cause my daddy's always with me, even though we are apart I know because he told me, he'll forever be in my heart" With that, her little hand reached up, and lay across her chest. Feeling her own heartbeat, beneath her favorite dress. And from somewhere here in the crowd of dads, her mother stood in tears. Proudly watching her daughter, who was wise beyond her years. For she stood up for the love of a man not in her life. Doing what was best for her, doing what was right. And when she dropped her hand back down, staring straight into the crowd. She finished with a voice so soft, but its message clear and loud. "I love my daddy very much, he's my shining star. And if he could, he'd be here, but heaven's just too far You see he was a firefighter and died just this past year When airplanes hit the towers and taught Americans to fear. But sometimes when I close my eyes, it's like he never went away." And then she closed her eyes, and she saw him there that day. And to her mothers amazement, she witnessed with surprise A room full of daddies and children, all starting to close their eyes. Who knows what they saw before them, who knows what they felt inside. Perhaps for merely a second, they saw him at her side. "I know you're with me Daddy," to the silence she called out. And what happened next made believers, of those once filled with doubt. Not one in that room could explain it, for each of their eyes had been closed. But there on the desk beside her, was a fragrant long-stemmed pink rose. And a child was blessed, if only for a moment, by the love of her shining star. And given the gift of believing, that heaven is never too far. They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them, but then an entire life to forget them. REPOST THIS TO SHOW APPRECIATION for the people you'll never forget . It's a short message to let them know that you'll never forget them. If you don't REPOST THIS, it means you're in a hurry and that you've forgotten your friends. Take the time...to live and love. Until eternity post this as "♥Daddy's Poem♥"

LET IT GO... by T. D. Jakes There are people who can walk away from you. And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you: let them walk. I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone. When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left. People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay. Let them go . And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person, it just means that their part in the story is over. And you've got to know when people's part in your story is over so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead. You've got to know when it's dead. You've got to know when it's over. Let me tell you something. I've got the gift of good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in good-bye. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it. Stop begging people to stay. Let them go!! If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to LET IT GO!!! If you are holding on to past hurts and pains .. LET IT GO!!! If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your worth... LET IT GO!!! If someone has angered you ... LET IT GO!!! If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge .. LET IT GO!!! If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction . LET IT GO!!! If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents .. LET IT GO!!! If you have a bad attitude... LET IT GO!!! If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better... LET IT GO!!! If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a new level in Him... LET IT GO!!! If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship.... LET IT GO!!! If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try to help themselves.. LET IT GO!!! If you're feeling depressed and stressed ... LET IT GO!!! If there is a particular situation that you are so used to handling yourself and God is saying "take your hands off of it," then you need to... LET IT GO!!! Let the past be the past. Forget the former things. GOD is doing a new thing for 2007 !!! LET IT GO!!! Get Right or Get Left . think about it, and then LET IT GO!!!

I have always been told that the eyes are the windows to a persons soul..If this is true tell me how can you look deep into my eyes and walk away from me with a smile on your face?? Know this I am a good woman and I will not let those of you who pretend to love me bring me down! Look closer, Look deeper see who I really am!! I AM A GOOD WOMAN A good woman is proud of herself. She respects herself and others. She is aware of who she is. She neither seeks definition from the person she is with, or does she expect them to read her mind. She is quite capable of Articulating her needs. A good woman is hopeful. She is strong enough to make all her dreams come true. She knows love, therefore she gives love. She recognizes that her love has great value and must be reciprocated. If her love is taken for granted,it soon disappears. A good woman has a dash of inspiration, a dabble of endurance. She knows that she will, at times, have to inspire others to reach the potential God gave them. A good woman knows her past, understands her present and moves toward the future. A good woman knows God. She knows that with God the world is her playground, but without God she will just be played. A good woman does not live in fear of the future because of her past. Instead, she understands that her life experiences are merely lessons, meant to bring her closer to self knowledge and unconditional self love.