Now I dont understand something and maybe I am so hopeless that i dont deserve it but all I ever wanted on this day is to hear the words Happy mother's day from my kids dad... and once again Nothing.. always a let down.i keep putting myself in this spot. I thought we had gotten passed our past but i guess we havent.
I understand that he is a trucker and he is normally busy but how hard is it to pick up the phone... I AM the one that is taking care of the kids and all his home business.. and not once asked for help, no money.. I am so stressed that one of these days it will end up killing me. thanks ..I just needed to vent
One of the best things about being married is not having to go about life alone. When your weak or at your lowest they are there to lift you up. To be able to call on the one you love when you need help or for advice without being judged. he keeps me laughing and on my toes. And he's gorgeous and smart. What else could I ask for. Blessed to have found the one for me...
dont have to be married but together and i feel the same way I did when we got divoced but love him even more now... crazy I know..
My ex husband and I get along 80% of the time.He started his first relationship after our divorce.He is now dating a older women.( which I do not agree with, mostly bc I still love him and I think she is too old for him, but thats another story)This older women told my youngest son that "I plan to take ur mom's place". Do I talk with my ex husband or do I talk with my son b/c its possible he is lying about it and he was just hurt to see dadddy moving on with out me. That was my first thought but my son was gun hold about what she said... what would u do in my place?
My husband and I both work and go to school. However it seem like ever since I started school, “me bettering myself“ is getting in the way of his plans. I do donate plasma two times a week b4 school,to help with gas money. After I donate,I feel so sick that I feel,like I never want to do it again. I love my husband so much that I am willing to make myself sick so he can get to school and work. So I was thinking if I quite school just long enough for him to graduate.My Financial aid is good for six month after I quite,and then ill do back the same time he graduates. I know it’s cutting it real close,but I would go back. So the way I see it we would be doing ok if everything goes as I have planed. I want to do both but I dont think I can without him complaining my school is getting in the way of things. WHAT WOUL YOU DO IN MY SHOES?? |
So I got home from school, i walked through the door and WOW.... the dishes was done , the living room was cleaned up and the kids was taking a nap.I was shocked,but a good way.See my husband must think im super women.I say that because he thinks I can do it all, give plasma 2x a week, school 3 days a week, work 4 days a week, 3 small kids to take care of the moment I get home,and to top the list he(hubby) want me to clean the house.Now I don't mine doing these things ,but come on now!! thats alot on 1 person, and I told him so. He didn't want to hear me.So I stop doing the dishes. After 3 days and no clean dish, he had to wash them. :D and now it's like he heard me. He's been so nice and soo sweet to me. Alot like the man I married 9 yrs ago.
I hope things keep getting better between us,to where we can move on with our life together.
Well folks I just wanted to update you all. If your the praying type please keep us in your prayers.