Marriage is not something you should take lightly. It is a life long commitment you are making to a person to stand beside them no matter the circumstance. There are going to be good times, those you hold close to your heart. There will also be bad times, you soon want to forget. A marriage is not always going to be a fairy tail or what you dreamed it would be. The person you married isn't always going to be the ideal one for you. When you make a commitment you have to throw away your "ideal" husband or wife and accept the person you married, faults and all. He or She is not disposable; you don't throw them away and seek another. You compromise and find what makes you both happy. You don't try to change the person, YOU LOVE THEM JUST THE WAY THEY ARE! If you cannot handle the most annoying thing they do… you never will… and it will never work… it will always bother you... You can try to change their faults, but bet on this you will always find another to change. Besides if he or she does try to change their habits for you, they will never be happy they will always be on the defense trying to please you. Why would you want to live that way...? Love them exactly as they stand before you... Or love them enough to let them find someone who can. I look around and see how easy people give in and seek divorce. Why, is it to hard to put someone else before you? Is it to hard to love unconditionally? Is it easier to seek anther rather than fix what is broken? Yes it may seem easier to start over rather than mend what is broken or missing, or replace the old with someone new. You can bet one thing for sure, the new will soon become the old and you will always find yourself in the same situation as the first. ..
I believe a marriage is a life long term. I believe it is commitment you make to the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, giving them the security that no matter what you will stand beside them... Until the day you die. . I believe you should accept each other exactly as they are and never put each other down. I believe you have to be best friends, tell each other your dreams and wishes. NEVER GIVE ANYONE ANYTHING THAT SHOULD BE GIVEN TO YOUR PARTNER. This means time, emotions, thought, feelings and/or concern anything that is taken away with or without knowledge of the other is in the end taking away from yourself.. I believe that if you don't tell me there is a problem, than you can't be angry, mad, hurt, upset or any other feeling you can feel or think of, cause you have not gave me the opportunity to explain, apologize, express, argue or fix the situation therefore making it your problem not ours. I believe communication is everything without it your marriage is bound to fail. Without it you can never truly trust the person you're with and with no trust you have nothing.
I want to be his first hello and last goodnight. I want to be his dream come true his reason why... I want to be his reason for breathing, his reason for living. I want to be his everything. I want to be his shoulder to cry on, the one he seeks to comfort him. I want to be the one he wants to stand beside him.
In the end I want to be in his arms, feel his breath on my skin, and hear his heart beat. And I will be complete and have no regrets, because the man I married, the one I loved has loved me too.
