OK, guys, I was talking to a friend the other day, and we decided that they should teach love in schools, sex education; ok, but there is a need to teach love too. Too any people but it all off on the churches, and schools; and they put it all off on the parents, and in the end our kids are learning nothing, until years later when they start to really learn about it the hard way. So I thought I would just send out a few pointers for everyone to read, or not you choice. Let’s start in the beginning, we all make stupid mistakes, but that is how we learn. These mistakes will happen and not all are the mistake others will see. Too often parents do not agree with ones decision of partners, and too often mess up what could have been a great relationship, just because. My words to everyone are to not try and destroy what you do not understand, remember yourself and what you had and lost because of someone else. Next, love is not changing someone to be what you want them to be, but more, excepting them for who they already are, not who you want them to become. Changing a person to be what we think we want is not love it is control. If you do not like something about someone, you should not be with them; nothing is worth the pain and misery. You must decide if that something is something you can live with the rest of your life. Next, Honesty is always the best policy, remember that, live by that and you can and will be happy. Secrets will come out one day, and they can destroy you and your relationship completely. If it happened before you knew them, then you have already accepted it as part of them. Last for now, I will say this. Communication is the key to being happy, if you can not talk to your partner, how can you fix the problems you are having. You must decide to talk if you want your relationship to survive the troubles ahead. Fighting never fixes anything, just makes things worst. If you want something talk to your partner, I am sure you will be happy with the outcome. TTYL, John
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