Guys, I want some comments.
Yeah, this is mostly venting, but I still want comments.
I want a man, not a stupid slack-jawed idiot. I want to actually be the lady in the relationship. I'm all for gender equality, but come on. The lady paying for everything!? Thats not right! I want the guy to have a job, thats not some fly-by-night-might-still-have-it-tomorrow kind of job. I don't care if it's a restaurant job or a mechanic job, but something that will last. I don't want a guy who has a job for a few weeks and then either gets fired or quits. I'm more than willing to pay for dates and drive and pay for gas, but it would be nice to be taken out on dates too.
I want someone who understands romance and being sweet. I mean, would it kill you to buy flowers for no reason, or to pay attention to what we like and just randomly buy it? Guys, you don't have to go all out to be romantic. We don't require rose petals all over the place with candles lit and a bath drawn, even the smallest sentimental gesture goes a long way, esp with me. I can't speak for ALL girls, but I speak for me.
And is chivalry really dead? What happened to opening doors to buildings or cars? What happened to pulling out chairs at restaurants? And would it kill you to give a compliment a day? Even if it's the same thing each day "You look lovely this morning" or "You're very beautiful" or anything really. And what about giving attention in public? I'm not talking about full on making out on a bench in the park, but holding hands, an arm over your girls shoulder, a kiss on the cheek, those would all be great.
Okay, theres my vent for the day. Thanks for reading.
