So basically to sum life up...my son's father and believe me i use that term quite loosely is the worlds biggest douche bag. So this last thursday he was supposed to have him overnight hadn't seen him in two weeks but was too busy being white trash and had to set up for garage sale..so i offered a couple of hours instead of an overnight well he couldn't pull himself away from being such a douche bag to come and pick up his son...so that's the first instance in a chain of events. So i have been reminding him that pictures are tomorrow, i have been calling him everyday for a week trying to get him to give me money so i could order pictures so my son wasn't the only one of my ex's kids that didnt have picture up around there house...i even offered to cover the pictures costs and he could pay me back when he is supposed to get my son for this weekend, while i was reminding him of the pictures and asking which package he wanted to order i reminded him that we had a 28 dollar snack fee for my son's kindergarten class well he threw a fit about the 14 dollars and claimed that is what that 120 dollars a month he pays me is for then began yelling at me if i didnt waste his child support on buying my son toys then i would have the money to pay the fees..he obviously missed the point i am more than capable of paying the costs but i figured since he was half the reason there is a child in this world named matthew i figured he could cover half the costs of schooling that child he helped create...so i pretty much told him to go fuck himself...will someone please explain to me why men like that are not steralized at the age of 18...there should be a test before people are allowed to have sex. I was trying to be nice and previously he wasnt able to transport my son to school in the morning his overnight is supposed to be thursdays but i agreed to letting it be fridays...yeah not anymore asshole get him to school the best way you know how and if you dont guess what no more overnights during the week...and guess what else fuck face you can pay the extra child support...so to anyone that is reading my vent here i appreciate the attention you are giving this matter...if you should ever run into an asshole named james bower kick him square in the balls and tell him he is a fuckface and shouldn't be allowed to reproduce!