First dates for most people are stressful situations, but they do not have to be. Dates should be fun and exciting experiences. If you remember the following things, and use some common sense, your date will have a much better likelihood of succeeding.
• Focus on the other person.
• Remember you're there to have fun, so enjoy yourself.
• Go into it with a positive attitude, after all your first impression must have been good enough for them to go out on a date with you.
• Be yourself. This is very important. Most people can tell when someone is misleading them and it is not an attractive feature.
• Try to be outgoing. This will help make you feel more comfortable around your new acquaintance.
• Ask questions about the other person to start to get to know them better, but stay away from questions that have to do with past relationships on the first date.
• Do what comes natural. At the end of the date, if a kiss seems natural, then kiss them. If a hug seems natural, then hug them.
• Be sure to show your date your true self such as your: likes, dislikes, hobbies, interests, general info. Be careful no to take a point to an extreme as this can make you seem overbearing.
• Keep the conversation interesting. There is only one thing that is worse than silence on a date and that is a mind numbingly boring conversation.
• If your date feels as though you enjoyed the date, then they will be more likely to except a second date.
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