you know when you are looking forward to meeting someone and you finally get the chance, you are totally honest with the person that you are going to meet, and then when you meet them they find a way to get out of it or when you do meet them they will never contact you again saying that you would not be for them, but cant just be honest and ask questions but later they tell you oh i cant be with you because of this or that and they already know that part that is imperfect cause you tell them oh well they just dont know what a freiend that they have lost when they dont like something about the other person whats really funny is they want to judge you by your looks and all but not the person that you really are