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That old saying *Don't Judge A Book By It's Cover* is so overrated. We have all said it a time or 2. But none of us truly believe it. The fact of the matter is if you passed me on the street you wouldn't look twice. Unless my tits were hanging out or my ass was showing. There is good and bad in all of us. Friendship is pretty amazing. Who else could you do the things you do that others seem juvenile or stupid, and just laugh right with you. I don't have many friends. But the ones I do have I cherish like family. And I know the ones I do have don't judge other people. They give me a messed up look if I tell them a joke wrong. We laugh together, and then they tell me the joke right and we laugh some more. That is a true friend. I tell them my desires, my dreams, my wishes, and things left to still do. A true friend will be with you till the end. I am very open and opinionated. If you take the time to get to know me all that will be water under the bridge. I like to be in control. But with the right person I can be controlled. I like what I want, when I want it. But on the other hand I am always aware of what you want also. I would to the best of my ability give that to you.I sit and think of all the thing's I did wrong in my first 50 years. And I know in my next 50 ( or however many I have left), i refuse to make the same ones again. So many things to do and so little time. First and foremost is to tell my family and friends how much I love them. You never know when it will be the last time. Have no regrets. Have no *Wish I would have's*. Have no *I'll do it tomorrow's*. You can't take back the things you said good, bad, or indifferent. I'm sorry will never change. I'm sorry won't make it go away. And will you be truely sorry? Or just think it's the correct thing to say? The day's are long sometimes, and my mind starts wondering. I wonder what tomorrow may bring. If I even care. I always hope it brings a good day. I hope all my friends and family are ok. And I think to myself sometimes, * I hope I make it to another day*. I get depressed like everyone else sometimes, but my family and friends are always there to help me through it. If I'm sad there is always that 1 person who will cheer me up. If it's here or a million miles away. All I'm asking is for people to get to know each other before passing judgement. Life is to short, and you may be missing out on that 1 true friend that if you just would have taken a minute of your time to get to know tham, you just may have liked them. If your my true friend I will tell you all my secrets. and all my desires. And I have plenty. Good, Bad, or Indifferent. I'm secure in who I am. I love me just the way I am. There is nothing anyone can do to me to ever change that. Nor would I ever want to change you. Like me , love me, or hate me. It's your choice. If you ever need a shoulder to cry on, or someone to just listen, or need help with ANYTHING, just let me know. I'm here. I am a good listener. THANK YOU AND HAVE A NICE DAY. * CANDIE* (Not your ordinary girl)
