I was sitting here reading through some e-mails when my phone rang...it was my first x-husband. He was having a bad day and he was having problems at home. I have always been friends with him, well all of my ex's for that matter and I realized that no matter what our differences were while we were married we still remain friends to this day. I have always had more men friends then women. Men are more comfortable to be around then women. I listened and gave my advice and/or opinion and he finally started calming down. The reality of these relationships is that no matter what has happened in the past....should stay in the past and that life does go on. Especially if you have childern together. In our case we have childern and grandchildern together. We had some really bad times in our marriages(I married him twice) and even though it could have really torn us apart the fact of the matter is that until the day that we die we still have ties to each other and at some point in time we will have to see each other. I am thankful that I have this friendship with both of my ex-husbands. I know that if I need someone to talk to I can always call one of them and they will listen to me rant or cry...no matter what the situation is....well, I hope someday that I find another love in my life....but if not then it just wasnt meant for me...life does go on.....
