Firebug1961's blog: "Watching the world scroll by..."

I have just voted an a mumm left by a young lady in sort of a dilemma.   It seems that the age old problem with Marriage and being faithful has again reared it's ugly head.   Let me lay thin out so that there is no misunderstanding.   If you are truly in love with someone......and happy in your relationship.....infidelity is never an option that will come up.  Being that we as creatures are only human, temptation is always something that you must deal with.  Yet, if you and your other half are really truly in love and in a real relationship......the desire to cheat will never play out to reality.   I can say this after just having been through a divorce after 24 years.  A midlife crisis can and does strike the woman, enough said!   If your other half has been unfaithful in our relationship, there is only but two courses of action you can take.  Either let it pass and play like it didn't happen, forgive (of course it will happen again!), or dump their cheating ass!  You have to think more of yourself than to allow the cheating half of your relationship to play the old head games and make it all your fault.   Stand up and make a stand!  No one should get dumped on and take it!  If love is true........cheating is not an option!