How many times have you heard the old saying....All's fair in love and war. The more you become involved with someone in a relationship.....the more that saying rings true. That may not be true for many........but, it seems as if I can attest to the truth of this....as far as marriages go. Is it that you become comfortable with your partner, then when things begin to go south......comfort turns into an all out battle royale! I guess in my case, being a nice uy always backfires and ends up bitting you on the backside! Maybe someday I will learn........Is that possible for a man?