OKAY FIRST THINGS FIRST........I ABSOLUTELY LOVE MY 6 TATTOOS, MY 13 PIERCINGS AND MY HUGE DD FAKE BOOBS.......I HAVE DONE ALL OF IT FOR ME AND NOBODY ELSE AND I HONESTLY DON'T CARE WHAT ANYONE ELSE THINKS AND I WILL PROBABLY GET MORE.....THE POINT OF THIS BLOG IS TO TRY TO OPEN UP SOME PEOPLES MINDS.........I WON'T BE OFFENDED EITHER WAY BECAUSE I LOVE ME BUT GIVE ME (AND OTHER PEOPLE TOO) YOUR OPINIONS TOO (YES I AM EXTREMELY BORED TODAY....HEHE)
Okay so one of my friends went out last night and posted a blog which is what got me started on this little topic. I love her to death and I am not judging her for her opinion. Her is what she had to say:
I love to people watch. I swear, I think I am the only person left in Oklahoma City that has not had a boob job, or tattoo's, or my belly button pierced, or my nose pierced! My goodness!!! With all the boob jobs I saw, I should have become a boob plastic surgeon and I'd be set for life!!! What I don't understand is that when a woman gets a boob job, it should at least be tasteful...maybe small implants with a lift, not gigantic boobs that are obviously fake! Do they think they can't get a man unless they have huge breasts???? What a shame. Don't get me wrong, I think if a woman is happier with some plastic surgery then she should do it, and of course, some women have to have plastic surgery if they have gone through breast cancer. I understand the self esteem thing if they have small breasts and want a little enhancement. But my goodness! Ladies.......when your boobs are bigger than the size of your head, get real would you??? Breast enlargements should at least look natural. I saw one woman who I would guess to be a size 4, tiny tiny frame, and I swear her boobs were a triple D!! She looked totally out of proportion and all I could do was feel sorry for her. It's a wonder she didn't fall over forward!
My response to what she wrote was this:
I don't think that you can actually be in someones head and understand why a woman gets a boob job, a tattoo, piercings or anything else.......or why a man does it either. Who is to judge whether something is tasteful or not. Just think about this......you think that some women get their boobs to attract men right......so if it is wrong for them to do it for that reason......does it make them any better to not get it (regardless of how fake they may look) because other people judge them for not liking them or the way they look. Thankfully we live in a world where we can do whatever we want to ourselves and we should not judge anyone regardless of how much we don't like it. Honestly I love the way fake boobs look. I have had a lift and a reduction and then implants because I was not happy with the size because of my first surgery. Mine are DD which is what i was before the lift (I wouldn't mind being a little bigger either) and I am not even 4ft 11 so some people feel that they are too big but I love them. I did it for me but mine also do not look fake (nobody can ever tell). I didn't do it for anybody and I don't care what anyone else feels about them. I have 6 tattoos now and 13 piercings....also not for anyone other than myself. I think it is wonderful that we are able to express ourselves however we want. If I am completely covered up where you cant see my cleavage, my tattoos and my piercings I get treated completely different (especially from women) than what I do if I have any of the exposed. I am the exact same person with or without any of this. But it is something that I have enjoyed tremendously and I don't care what anybody thinks. I love who I am with all of my tattoos, my piercings and my big fake boobs. Love me for who I have made myself because I love me and I know I am pretty kick ass.....even with all of my extra metal and plastic and ink. Oh yeah and one more thing.......for women.....a lot of the time it is not a man that makes us feel the way we do.....it is other women that turn their noses up or just automatically judge without knowing that makes us have some of the complexes that we do. Men are freakin awesome in this sense because they don't care what you do as long as it makes you happy They typically just don't judge. So anyways!!!!
OKAY SO WHAT I AM SAYING........WHO CARES WHAT ANYONE ELSE DOES, HOW THEY LOOK OR WHAT THEY DO TO THEIR OWN BODIES. LOVE ME FOR ME AND LOVE YOU FOR YOU. MY PIERCINGS, MY TATTOOS AND MY HUGE FAKE BOOBS DON'T MAKE ME WHO I AM THEY ARE JUST EXPRESSIONS. YOU KNOW WHAT, TAKE SOME TIME AND ASK ME WHAT MY TATTOO MAY MEAN OR WHY I DECIDED TO GET MY BOOBS DONE. WHEN WE LOOK PAST ALL THE BULLSHIT THAT WE FEEL ISNT RIGHT OR WHAT MAY MAKE US JEALOUS (THAT WE SECRETLY DONT WANT TO ADMIT) WE WILL PROBABLY FIND SOME PRETTY KICK ASS FRIENDS OR MAYBE EVEN THAT PERSON WE ARE MEANT TO BE WITH. TATTOOS AND PIERCINGS DONT MAKE YOU HARD OR A BAD ASS AND NICE, HUGE FAKE BOOBS DONT MAKE YOU A SLUT OR DITSY OR OUT TO TAKE SOMEONE ELSES MAN. THEY ARE EXPRESSIONS. ITS NOT ME WITH SELF ESTEEM ISSUES......ITS THE PEOPLE WHO NEED TO JUDGE ME FOR WHATEVER REASON. GO OUTSIDE OF THE BOX. I PROMISE IT IS SO FREEING TO NOT HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE ARE DOING AND JUST LOVE PEOPLE FOR WHO THEY ARE AND NOT HOW THEY LOOK.
I LOVE YOU GUYS AND I KNOW I PROBABLY JUST RAMBLED BUT HEY......I REALLY DO LOVE MY PIERCINGS, TATTOOS AND MY BIG FAKE BOOBS......PLUS ALL OF MY FRIENDS THAT HAVE ANY OF THESE THINGS AS WELL OR EVEN IF YOU DONT : )~ I PROMISE 4 YEARS AGO I WAS THE MOST CONSERVATIVE GIRL YOU WOULD HAVE EVER MET. NOW I AM SO MUCH MORE RELAXED AND LOVE LIFE......IT'S REFRESHING
