Although there are many constants and laws about life, there are many ways to live life and somethings are flexible. There is no "one certain way" to live life, except to live by love.
I understand that some women don't want to be dominated and at times women can lead, be aggressive and take control too. I love it when a woman shows her own self-will, or is sexually aggressive, and stands up for herself. I think it is hot.
But let me explain something to you about why I have a dominant personality.
Being dominant and women being submissive is not my views. This is the way most human and animal social groups work and it is a system that has developed for millions of years. It is also what I have learned from my own relationships. In every relationship, whether straight, gay or bi, and in every social group there is a leader or a couple of leaders and most people follow. There is one who is dominant that the others submit to.
There is a difference between being dominant and being domineering. There is a difference between being in control and being controlling.
If you get the notion that I dominate women because I think they are my property or because I get pleasure from controlling them, you are sadly mistaken.
Control is an illusion. The only person that you have ABSOLUTE power and control over is your Self. The only control that you have over others is what they ALLOW you to have and the only control that others have over you is what you ALLOW them to have.
When I dominate and control women it is because they are ALLOWING me to. The women in my life and that I teach are gods, or I should say goddesses, with free will. They are allowed to tell me, "NO" at anytime. I do not force myself onto women or anything like that. I am always considerate of her feelings. But I do often tell them what to wear, what to eat and other things like that, but it is to make them healthier and feel better about themselves.
I am dominant because in EVERY relationship I have had, all the females expected me to dominate them, tell them what to do, make decisions and lead them to new things. In the past I could always get the girl but when I got her, then I would change and stop leading her. They'd get bored, be disappointed and leave. I had to figure out why. I spent a lot of time figuring it out.
I have always been a natural leader and even when I was a kid, I was more spiritually and socially aware than many of the adults I was around. I still am to this day. I have reached a point in my life where my self-awareness is far beyond most people even religous and political leaders and most psychology professionals. I am not the only one around who knows this stuff either but most of humanity is too afriad to be something other than what the world tells them to be. They are afraid to break out of the world's unhealthy and false paradigms.
Since I have learned to listen to my intuiton/heart/Higher Self and have let go of my social conditioning and have become more dominant in my relationships - now, my biggest problem is trying to not get girls I am not interested in to not like me. It is far scarier to me than losing some gorgeous wonderful woman that I love dearly or saying goodbye to a gorgeous woman who doesn't meet my standards.
You also have to understand that most people and most women prefer to follow and submit to others. And that is fine, but you all need to learn to dominate and lead your Selves and take a pro-active stance in who you allow to lead, controland dominate you.
This is why I dominate the women and the people in my life who need to be dominated with love and shown their own power. When you dominate people with love, and they learn to love themselves, then their awareness begins to be on the same level as you and you don't have to dominate them anymore because you are equals in that sense of self-awareness.
Every one of us is the same in many ways, and love is the ultimate psychology tool. No one can reject love when you truly know how to get to them to admit it, because it is natural capacity and want that we are born with and cannot be taken away. But those that choose to fool themselves and reject love are learning whatever it is they need to learn by rejecting it
I am here to lead and dominate those that need to be lead to learn to reject that fear based nonsense and to accept only love, including self-love. I may seem a little rough and arrogant at times when I talk about certain things but that is because that is what some people's social conditioning needs me to do. But I am very blunt about things, and if someone doesn't like it, that is their issue they need to deal with.
If I call someone a jackass, for an example, for the way they are acting, it is because I have been there and realized from my own experience that choosing to live in fear instead of love is just asinine. It is also because they talk to themselves that way, and to mirror it back them, they have to be called that because that is what their social programming needs me to do.
People who freak out about the word "dominance" or "control" are either undereducated or have false ideas about it.
All of us ALLOW others to dominate, control and influence us in one form or another. It depends on who they are, what they are teaching you that matters whether it is useful to you or not.
