Every relationship, whether straight, gay or bi, has to have a dominant and submissive role. This is a natural law even in social animal behavior and has developed for thousands of years. Two or more of the same role causes power conflicts. You can not have 2 or more people being dominant, without at least one being submissive and vice versa. This is even true in social circles. There is alway a leader.
Women are not used to being dominated to the point I am suggesting, but most often it is necessary to push her through her fears and social conditioning so she can learn. It is also my way of reminding her who is the submissive one when she tries to be bossy. I don't boss my girls around and I don't allow them to boss me around either. This isn't about owning women or treating them as property, but teaching them to come from love, to realize her own power and to know what it is like to have a man who understands her deepest desires that she may not even realize. The more dominant the leader is and the more submissive the follower is, the better the relationship. It is not about owning anyone.
This isn't about controlling women but not allowing her to control me. It is a woman's job to try and try to control the man, and it's the man's job to NEVER let that happen.
Here is the thing. I am a man who has a purpose and mission. I am the one who is driving and the one who ultimately makes the decisions but I am always considerate of a woman's feelings. It is okay for a woman to tell me where she wants to go, but I do not allow her to grab the wheel. If a woman's path is different than mine, than we are choosing to be who we are choosing to be and there is no need for blame or judgment, and I let her go to explore a new path.
As you read any of what I share with you, you need to be your own spiritual warrior and self-guru. I don't want you to buy what I say without filtering it through your heart chakra and seeing if it rings true for you. Failing to do so is how most of humanity has been misled and decieved by religion and government and that includes Christianity. You also must remember that there are other factors in human and social behavior that are natural "laws" that cannot be broken and have developed for thousands of years that I am not mentioning at this time. Maybe in another blog..
And for you guys, if you have been in a relationship for awhile that isn't going well and you try to spring all of this on your girl at once, you will most likely lose her or she will test you to see if you can stick ot your word because your behavior has all of a sudden changed. You either need to introduce it gradually, or let her go and get your inner game handled and find a new relationship that you can make better.
