I thought I could avoid adding one of these little paragraphs, but it appears I have to make a few things immensely more clear before there's some type of misunderstanding. Just because I veiwed your profile or even sent you an email doesn't mean it's about sex. I can honestly say I'm a single sweet black male who's easy to get along with and likes to flirt, although I'm pretty much laid back and enjoy listening to my R&B music, but when it comes to relationships. I believes that when there's honesty and an understanding, any relationship goes a long way. I may come off as a quiet type, but shortly after the shyness wares off, the humour isn't hard to notice. You'll find me to be open-minded and I do prefers an environment free of hostility and conflicts. Really don't want to be bothered with all that drama. Basically I've actually already done the club scene and not as much of a club person anymore, probably more settled in and into kicking back and spending quality time with that special female. I mean, don't get me wrong, I still like to get out and get my drink on, just not as much. I consider myself to be independant, and capable of taking care of myself. I'm somebody who present his ideas in a logical, artistic manner. Basically just another brother who's looking for that right female to enjoy life with without the headgames and the drama that comes with it. You know, I have no problems with meeting new friends here and possibly hanging out, but I am seeking a female I could get to know for who she is as a person, and eventually be able to call her my queen oneday. Not saying I'll find her here on the internet, but if I do, all well is fine. Preferrable a beautiful woman in her mid to late 20's, possibly 30's. Somebody who would not only be a positive influence in my life, but I would be a positive influence in her life as well. You know, someone single and free of any types of previous flings. That female who enjoys my company as well as I enjoy her company. Honest, caring, and have a purpose in life. You know, a female who takes care of herself, knows what she wants in life, and presents herself in a respectful or professional way. That female who has her head on right and doesn't mind putting in 100% being there for her man, where my quality time easily replaces her booty calls and my hangin' out with the fellows become a scheduled event. But at the same time, that female who doesn't abuse the 100% she recieves from her man with lies, the head games and the drama that comes with it. So, if you think you fit what I'm looking for and you have your head on right. Drop me a line or two and lets get to know one another. If the chemistry is there, lets see where it takes us.............