In my life I often ask myself am I where I want to be, and to me that has always been such a moot point. Where I am, it's where I should be. I'll be content in that place because it is just what is meant to be in a moment. If you want something you work for it. If you think you want it, and you don't work for it, then obviously you didn't really want it did you? Marriages that fail, careers, college, whatever. We all constantly complain and feel sorry for ourselves. I listen to people always saying well, I wish I could, or I wanna. Why do you sit back and just watch the world move around you?? Get up and DO something!!!! You can not just sit there and wait for things to fall in your lap. Oh and ladies, before you get any brilliant ideas, I'm not talking about getting relationships. If a relationship is going to happen it will. So quit waisting your time waiting for mister perfect to come along. LIVE YOUR LIFE! Do what you WANT TO DO. I realize for some of you that may mean having a husband and kids and that is all you want to do, and that is great, that is a wonderful aspiration. In the meantime however; I IMPLORE you to make waves in your life. Take some random road trip JUST to eat at a resturant 15 hours away. Ask some randome man for coffee, JUST because. It doesn't HAVE to be a date. It's just time with another adult, because sometimes we hide behind our excuses way to much and way to often. Grab a friend and look up your nearest cave or historical site! Just GOOOO... find 15 minutes each day to call and compliment someone you don't talk to often. EVERYONE has something that they can be appreciated for. Step away from the computer, and get into LIFE. Stop making excuses.. kids, money, whatever... speaking of which grab tight and just hold them for at the very LEAST 5 minutes a day because this sweet life is way to short. If you aren't enjoying everyday, if you aren't looking forward to the next ask yourself WHY?? Don't be dissatisfied!! Do things you ENJOY, and may I suggest, find things that DO NOT cost money that you may enjoy... we (the world) holds too much value in things that cost... why? Joy shouldn't come from such things... Break out of your shell, burst the bubble you are in, get uncomfortable!!! Eventualy you will see that being uncomfortable isn't so horrid! In fact, by doing so, you may just meet some interesting people, or even one special one.... ok.. I'm done once again:D Hugs n kisses loves!! ~ME
