Why do RELATIONSHIPS and LOVE SUCK????
Why are they so hard and complicated??
And so damn confusing???
Why can't we ever figure them out???
Why do we even need and want them in our lives????
Why are there so many lies about them(that have people thinking they are soooo wonderful)???
If they're so wonderful, then why do they just fade away, and end(sometimes with no warnings)????
Why does it HURT so damn bad????
How can they have so much power over us???
Why do we do, say and make decisions about things that we normally wouldn't, and say its because of LOVE???
Is LOVE really the reason??
Or just an excuse that we use???
If so, why do we use it???
Is it just to make us feel better???
Does it really help us feel better about it???? Or is it just our own self-pitty????
Why is it so easy to LOVE, But so hard to be LOVED?????
Why do we LOVE???
What does it really mean to LOVE someone???
How is this 4 letter word so powerful and mean so much????
How is it that everyone can have different views and definitions of LOVE and RELATIONSHIPS????
Why do we make such a big deal about them???
Why do they matter so much to us????
Does anyone really even know what LOVE IS???? Why its so important to us????
Why do some people say its something SACRET????(Yet, its used and said so frequently by everyone)
And what is a RELATIONSHIP really????
Why are there so many different kinds???
Why is it so important to us???
Why do we try so hard for them???
What do we really get from them??
What really makes a good Relationship????
Where do we go wrong with them???
And what makes it so wrong???
How do you get to the point where all feelings are gone??
Why do we get that point???
What does it mean when you want to feel, and you know you should feel something, but you don't???
How do feelings that were there for so long just disappear????
What happens??
When two people get together, they are considered to be in a relationship. They say they love each other. Obviously, there are some deep and strong feelings. Everything is good. Something goes wrong. They no longer have the same feelings. It all ends, and there are so many unanswered questions... Too much blame goin around with fingers being pointed. Some people might stay and try. Never workin anything out because they don't get over what has happened. So then it becomes a big painful, stressful rollercoaster ride. With the same issues and problems over and over again. If and when it finally does end, there's more blame and finger pointing, alot more unanswered questions, and now alot of regret. Every Relationship has problems. Some big some small. But they are there.
Is this really a relationship????
Why do we want that????
Everyone always goes through basically the same issues. But yet we all look for relationships, and want to be in them. No matter the consequences, the chances, or the pain and headaches.
Why is that????
Why is that what we want and long for???
Because of stories that we've all heard. We sit around thinking that our soul mate, (prince charming, goddess, one and only, perferct match, etc.) is goin to come and everything will be perfect. Well...
What makes us think that relationship will be perfect??
Why don't we think we will have problems with them???
How do we know that they are our soul mate???? And if they are, How do we know that we are theirs???
Does our perfect soul mate or what ever you wanna call them really even exist????
How do we know who it is???
How will we know its them????
Where have they been???
If they are our soul mates and we were meant to be together, then...
Why weren't we together to begin with???
Sometimes I wander if everything really does happen for a reason, or like everything else we just try to make excuses to help us feel better..
