what's wrong with my thinking here??
I have spent most of my life, bouncing from job to job, mainly because I lost daycare because my ex would pay them while she had custody. I had alot of friends help me out.
Now I am getting on my feet, I will loan people money and , of course they are supposed to pay me back. Of course, that doesn't alway happen, but it's ok. Remember the golden rule??
Also, I am the world's worst housekeeper, am a total slob when I want to be (it comes from years of being alone). I really didn't care.
I still have my son living with me, don't charge him much to live here, although he is 22. I loan my daughter and son in law money to buy a car or rent a new house, while I live in a run down mobile home. I give my mom $100 a month to repay her for the money she has given me over the years.
Now am being told I need counselling because I let people walk all over me.
I admit; I have my insecurities and defense mechanisms, but, who doesn't??
Ok, will look into some counselling, talk it over and see if I am doing myself harm
