is there such a thing ??? at one time i would have said yes but life doesn't go that way every time i think i find it try to make plans for it ,it eludes me and goes away this time it hurts a lot more than it has ever hurt me without the person i feel empty and useless i gave all my love only to have it rejected once more , just getting too old to keep starting over my dreams and hopes keeping getting crushed experiences like this are suppose to make you stronger but for me it just keeps getting worse. they say to tell people that you love them every day but somehow i think it pushes them away it seems to be that way in my case ,no matter how hard i fight to keep them they go away wondering if my happily ever after will ever truly happen