Snow White Steps in Building a Relationship (C 1998 ) Josie Roberts
1. INTEREST ( Bashful )
alias "Interested stranger"
to correct false assumptions.
WHAT do you want ?
2. CONCERN ( Dopey )
alias "Acquaintance"
to resolve ambiguity
WHO arouses me, i.e. matters to me
& effects me.
3. UNDERSTAND/APPRECIATE ( Sleepy )
alias "Friend"
to establish new relationship
WHY am I getting this emotion ?
Excellence, special/irreplaceable,
I'll never be the same as result of them.
Ecstatic, potential seen.
4. TRUST ( Doc )
alias "Turstworthy friend"
to risk fast answer
WHERE is risk OK ?
Confidence in ability , intention,
integrity.
5. CARING ( Grumpy )
alias "Meaningful relationship"
to recognize implications immediately
WHEN should you interact ?
Being responsible to preserve & safeguard
welfare, i.e. take precautions.
6. FULFILLMENT ( Happy )
alias "Love"
to take crucial steps.
HOW can you be satisfied ?
Other as important as you are, cannot
diminish with time or distance.
7. RECONCILED ( Sneezy )
alias "Just Friends" at least forever
Original vision restored.
