***I havent seen/held my son in about 5 years. I could not POSSIBLY imagine getting the phone call, the knock at the door, or even worse, the word of mouth that something had happened to him. To say that I would be completely destroyed if my TEEN daughter suddenly did not come home from school one day because of something like this would be an UNDERSTATEMENT. I will be lighting my candle on Christmas eve for all the victims, the victims families/loved ones, and ALSO the family/loved ones of the young man at the helm of this tragedy, in hope that they will ALL find true peace within themselves...Devastation knows no boundaries and does NOT discriminate!!