OK so I have a friend that hooked me up with this guy only after she did her thing with him. At the time I did what any good friend would do if a guy that the other is either really liking or whatever. I asked her if it was cool if we went out on a date. She said sure there is no real feelings there and I don't care I'm done with him. Well come to find out she did have an issue with it and she lied to me while I was dating this guy by not only still talking to him but setting up plans to either get laid by him or date him. This is only after she said to me that she didn't want to talk to him anymore, so she said.
Let it be known I don't do this behind another girl's back thing because the only reason women are not in power in america is we because some have this secret want urge and need to tear other women down. And well that's not how it should be, we should be able to build each other up..
When I did talk to this guy he told me that he was going to talk to both of us and if something happens between him and her or him and me then the other one will just have to happy about it. I finally, after that statement, told him no thank you. I'm not going to be in a competition with one of my friends for a man's affection. I made it very clear and very forceful statement and said No you can deal with her and never talk to me about thanks for the 2 dates and several phone calls by good bye.
I really liked the guy but I don't want to be played against a friend. And I sure as hell don't was a man to be the reason a friend either lies or is secretive with me. There is no reason for that in a true friendship. I'm sorry, my best friend and me share damn near everything and we have no competitions with each other because we are open and honest. Why can't more women be like that with each other? Instead of being back stabbing and untruthful with each other. Yes we aren't all perfect. Maybe I'm more secure with myself and how I see myself that I don't need a man that thinks they can manipulate me into thinking one of my friends is a bad guy that needs to be beat in a competition for a man's attention. FUCK THAT SHIT!!! I'm a very strong independent woman that most men can't deal with. I would love to find someone that can deal with me without putting me down and trying to manipulate me. I would love someone that thinks saying another girl is hotter than me is going to make me feel bad. I would also love someone that doesn't think that I won't just leave their ass if I think I'm not being treated right. Sorry buddy this lil Italian woman will not stand for someone trying to make her feel bad, ruin my own thoughts of awesomeness about myself or try to get in between a friendship of mine. Thanks but most of my friends are my family as well.. And you mess with my family and you will get hurt, mostly mentally and emotionally. You all can have fun with that. So I'm done with my rant, Thanks for reading leave some rates or comments if you like, if not ahhhh well..
