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Okay...so I'm not exactly supposed to speak ill of the woman that brought me into this world. I shouldn't hold any anger towards her...right? Well it's not working out that way. I swear, I'm about 2 steps from just going off on her, getting my shit and living in the streets with my boys until I can get a new home. Why? Because it's okay for them to "move in as roommates" and just flat take-over the house when I was paying $600 a month plus groceries to live there. So I stopped paying them $600 a month for two bedrooms and a backyard (for my dogs since the step-father won't let them stay in without flea medication...which I can't afford). I pay $200 plus an extra $100 throughout the month. I pretty much pay as if I was living in a hotel. Except that I don't get treated like anything but an annoying red-headed step-child with kids. I gave my mother $30 of my last $45, and what did I hear in return? A thank you, but that's just not enough? No. No thanks at all. All I get is "well, I'm just trying to keep everything going." and grouchy attitude. Now, I don't think we HAVE to have cable tv or internet. Those are extras...not necessities. She can afford to continuously feed her extremely overweight self with all the cookies and cakes and junk she does NOT need, but will not buy cereal or pop tarts for my kids' breakfast when I give them money. And I shouldn't be mad that she's ungrateful for keeping $10 of my own money when she can't even manage hers? It's MY fault that they're filing bankruptcy? No. Sorry that you have to file for a SECOND time in your life, Mother, but MAYBE you should consider seeking financial counselling.
Yeah, I couldn't afford to keep my own home by myself. Why is this? Because my child support stopped coming in. I had no help. And I'm sorry, but paying $600 a month plus utilities and groceries and whatever else the world decides to throw at me, is not something I can do on a $14 an hour salary. I NEED help, and my resources were seriously tapped out. No more roommates. No more child support. What was I supposed to do? Now I have to suffer her. God....help me get out of this. I just want to live in my own home and not have to live under the thumb of a control freak.
