As a victim of abuse, I can instantly spot the "Battered Woman's" Syndrome in MEN. I have seen at least 5 cases of males being abused by women. I have since become an advocate for many men who are being abused.
MEN have become the silent victims. Society as a whole says, "Never raise your hand to a woman" then turns right around and says, "What's the matter boy? Can't control your woman?" when he talks about how she abused him.
The first case of male abuse was on a military base. I witnessed first hand how manipulative an abusive woman can be. After that, I started watching people a little more carefully.
Women will first start by calling the cops on the man and then laughing when they go to jail saying, "I told you that they would believe me over you." She now has control over him.
The last case that I had dealt with was with my own ex-husband. I tried to show him that their could be a saner life. The problem was, he didn't know how to deal with that. He had been so severely abused by his ex-wife that he didn't know how to have a healthy relationship without all the drama. He eventually left me for yet another abusive woman not long after my father died and I became too weak spiritually at the time to "fight" her off.
If any of this sounds like a situation that you are in or have been in, please click on my picture and send me a private message. I am writing a book about the stories of abused men and why they allow themselves to be abused. I can tell you that so far the #1 reason is, they feel that they have to stay to protect their children and THERE ARE NO ABUSE SHELTERS SET UP FOR MEN IN THIS COUNTRY!!
Now you may ask yourself, "Why would a woman claiming to have dominant tendencies or claim to be a dominatrix say things about abuse?" Because as I said above, I was also abused and I can truly understand what it was like and how I got to the point I'm at. After 15 years, I still live in fear of that man and I know that others do too.
