Boy....did I get it put to me this time....
I fell head over heels for a woman named Alexandra that I met on Hot or Not.com. We chatted on Yahoo for a while, then arranged a date.
Thursday, August 30, 2007
We were to meet at Bob Evans in Westerville. The only problem was that there are two Bob Evans' in Westerville. She went to one....and I went to the other. So we didn't get off to a good start. I received a phone call from her later that night. She was in the Emergency Room for abdominal pain. She asked me if I could go to McDonalds for her daughter. I told her I would and brought it right to her. So our REAL first meeting was in the Emergency Room. She finally got released and I walked her and her daughter to her car. As it turns out....I had parked right beside her. I figure to myself that this has to be some kind of fate playing it's hand.
Friday, August 31, 2007
We decided to try Bob Evans again. This time we went to the same one, but traffic made me about 10 minutes late. She left just before I got there.
Saturday, September 1, 2007
We finally got it right! This time I suggested the resturant and I chose Damon's Grill. I made sure that I got there early...as a matter of fact...I got there so early that I had time to go to a grocery store and buy her a pot full of Oriental Lillies. She showed up with her daughter and we had dinner.
Monday, September 3, 2007
Alexandra showed up at the store. She was looking at buying some of these butterflies that we had. She didn't buy them, but I thought I would be nice and buy them for her. It was on this day that I found out that she was about to undergo back surgury.
Thursday, September 6, 2007
She came by the store again today. I can't remember what she bought (and I paid for), but I delivered the butterflies to her. I held back on some Tylenol PM she asked me to get so that we would have an excuse to see each other again.
Friday, September 7, 2007
We had dinner at Bob Evans tonight, then went to the Meijer store and I boght her an Ohio State shirt and some New York pajama pants. She told me that she was going to wear them the next night....and by the way....she was going to be spending the night at my place.
Saturday, September 8, 2007
First time stood up....she said her daughter was sick and she wasn't going to be able to stay with me tonight. She was to meet me at the store and then we would go to my place. I didn't wait very long....and it's a good thing I didn't. I told her then that she needed to get a cell phone and offered to get it for her.
Sunday, September 9, 2007
She came by the store today and we bought the cell phone for her and a 60 minute card.
Monday, September 10, 2007
I offered to purchase her a double-minutes phone card and 1 year subscription for her cell phone. She came by the store and picked them up.
Thursday, September 13, 2007
We ate at Bob Evans again, but before that, I bought her daughter a Cleveland Indians t-shirt. She told me she had tickets to the Indians game for Friday. We ate dinner, then went to Meijer to pick up an Indians shirt for her. We made an arrangement earlier that her daughter was going to go to a sleep-over and she would spend the night with me. She was supposed to call me after dropping off her daughter...but she never called. I did see her log off of Yahoo around 9:30 or so.
Friday, September 14, 2007
I had Reserve Drill today and saw her log on to Yahoo before I left that morning. She ignored all of my messages. I tried to contact her all day to see what happened and what was going on. I didn't hear from her at all until...
Monday, September 17, 2007
I finally got her to respond to me on Yahoo. She told me she had cold feet and was a little scared. I took that at face value and asked her to come to the store. She did so and I wound up having to pay for her stuff again (about $30) and I also gave her another $20 to go to Wendys so she could get me some dinner. She never showed back up at the store. She ignored all of my Yahoo messages when I got home.
Tuesday, September 18, 2007
I talked to Alexandra on Yahoo tonight and she gave me a story about her being raped at Wendys and how she couldn't travel to my side of town anymore. I did a quick check on columbusdispatch.com, as well as the local TV Station websites to see if there was anything in the news about any rape at a Wendys in front of a juvinile witness (She said it happened right in front of her daughter). I found nothing there.
Wednesday, September 19, 2007
She called me while I was unloading my truck to ask if I could purchase a $20 card for her cell phone. I told her that I would call her when I was on my way home so that we could set something up. I called....and no answer. She answered me when I got home on Yahoo. We set the place to meet....but not the time. I checked her fubar page and noticed that there was another guy sending her a lot of gifts so I checked out his page. As it turns out....there was a message to this guy from Alexandra saying that she "can't wait for friday babe". I saw that I then read his profile and he said that he had just met someone and had spent the entire weekend with her. It didn't take me long to put 2 & 2 together. I told her on Yahoo that about all the information that I found out and to have a nice life.
