I believe in a souls right to liberty, so I guess that my ideal mate would have their own interests away from mine. I know that sounds simple, but that means not feeling threatened by something that we may not share. Healthy adult relationships allow for each person to be an individual.while still feeling confident in the quality of the intamacy they share.
In my experience, people in relationships often find themselves stifiling who they are as a person,(often in an attempt to please another) or obsessing in some endless jealous loop. If experience comes from making descisions, than wisdom comes from learning from our bad ones.
The most amazing gift we are given is life, I hope we all really get to live it.
The fact is, for me, having your own life and seperate interests is one of the sexiest and most attractive features I have found in a woman. (outside of a keen sexual aggression, Its 2012 ladies, I know your just as freaky as me) As for favorite activites, I enjoy Drawing, writing, Excercise(martial arts)and hanging out with friends via a home based organic customer service venture. The fact is, I will never ever lie to you. That being said, if you ask me something that I simply cannot answer, simply understand why I don't answer.