Married to the love of my life. We are poly with women...not currently looking but okay with playmates and silliness. We are both writers of erotica and poetry, gamers (Destiny whaaaaat!), and completely devoted. Anything I do he knows about and visa versa.

On a personal note, he is my Dominant, I am his sumbissive. We have spent most of our online kink on fetlife, but as I have been a member of fubar since it was cherrytap (haha!) I decided to finally return to my fu-roots and have some fun here. It's a nice reprieve I will say, most are much more respectful here.

Rafiki23 is my REAL husband, we have 4 children, and NO you will never be a replacement to either of us, but we are flirtatious by nature, and if a person follows our standards...which are pretty much all kinksters standards being RESPECT we will gladly flirt and play.


If you have questions do not hesitate to ask and try to get to know me. I am pretty shy, but down to earth. I am not a friend whore, but I will most likely accept your requests, and I gladly welcome as well as try my best to return fu-loves and attentions.

Currently interested in joining a few chat groups...so if you want to advertise here go right ahead


Also...WHO plays mobsters?!