At what point do you stop holding out hope, at what time can you safely say that there is indeed no going back.
We have all, at some point been in just that situation, unsure of how and when to let go and move on…is it the right thing to do, do you hold on to the smallest part of hope that what you have desired and wished for will again come true, will once more be there for you to treasure and hold true to you……
Do we really ever let go, or is it there in the back of our minds, giving us the occasional nudge every now and again, just to remind us just how we do feel, then it is up to us as to how we handle it at that time and mostly we reflect for a while then tuck it back in the depths of our mind once again…….until the next time……..does it get easier to handle each time…who knows…it’s a personal thing…some handle and deal well with it…….others, not so well.
For me, I tend to think I can handle things like that pretty well but I have been told very often that I have this ability to……*get inside someone’s head*…meaning that I can reach in from a distance and be able at times to open up someone’s mind, know what they think to an extent and know just how they think and feel at any given time, be mentally in tune with that persons mindset……and as some have commented to me……..*walk around inside their head* which I have been told is in no way a bad thing…….some feel very comforted by the fact that I seem to be able to reach in and touch parts of their mind that others will never reach and because of this I can even see, from a distance something’s that maybe even they are not aware of or even blocking out for some reason , but it does making understanding that person just a little easier and indeed makes for a much stronger bond between us both…
With all of this in mind, I have one thing to say to one person right now…I am there…I have seen….I understand fully and is why I am behind you 100% even walking with you, every step of the way as I feel it is just what you need to feel and need to hear right now as I understand that it is NOT easy and that is why..No matter what you will have my unreserved and unconditional friendship