I have a question for everyone I want to hear everyones opinion ok I had A girlfriend for a while that I madly fell in love with and she comes to me and says she needs time to her self so she can deal with some problums that she has and she has to it on her own so she wants to put are relationship on hold until she takes care of the problums she says she feels the same way about me as do her so I say that it is fine that put the realationship on hold and I will be there for her when she decides to come back that is the easy part but I also have a friend that clames he is my brother atleast that is what he said but I find them in bed together I want to forgive them at least her because I dont want to loose her because she is the love of my life but I feel realy betraid right now.What should I do? All comments and suggestions are welcome thank you for the help.