I found this on a article on My Yearbook, I didn't write this! But i feel that it ought to be posted it.
What we're doing wrong and why it's unfair
Why is it that every time I read an article, it's always about how bad guys are? I don't understand why every girl on myYearbook always has to write an article about how bad guys are. Haven't you ever stopped to think that maybe it's not the guys that are wrong, but it's the girls that are? Why are all of the females judging every guy by their past experiences with one guy?
I personally think all of these females that write articles about how bad guys are truly don't understand that guys are different from girls. Yes, guys fart, burp, act stupid and childish at times but, honestly, everyone does. Girls need to stop being so worried about finding that perfect guy, because that perfect guy doesn't exist. You will never find a guy that doesn't fart, burp, or say stupid things. Guys aren't made to work like girls are. They don't care about make up and lip gloss. They don't do anything wrong.
Also, girls need to stop being so stuck up. If your boyfriend's feet hurt, why not rub them? He'd probably do that for you. If he wants to have a night out with his friends, what is the problem? I'm sure you wouldn't want him going out with you when you're trying to have ladies' night out. If he wants to watch football and just relax, then why can't he? I know you don't want him talking to you about his day when you're trying to watch your soap operas or your favorite movie.
Here are some things I think girls should stop doing:
Stop worrying so much. If he tells you he's gonna do something, he'll most likely do it in his own time. Don't yell and fret and argue about something so stupid like that. I'm sure he doesn't like it when you yell at him to do something, it probably makes him feel worthless and childish.
When he wants to relax, just let him. If he wants to play video games, let him. If he wants to watch TV, then let him. Why can't he be able to do these things without being nagged or yelled at? Why don't you play a video game with him or watch whatever he's watching? Even though you don't want to, how bad can it be? I don't think he likes holding your purse when you're shopping, but he does it any way because it's making you happy.
Let him have his space. I don't think he likes it when you're constantly calling him to ask him where he is or who he's with. When he wants to go out, let him go without an argument. He knows he still has to come home, so what's the big deal? And when he's not talking, you don't have to keep asking him what's wrong. If he wanted to talk about it he would have told you the first time you asked.
Stop bitching at him. How would you feel if your man nagged you about everything you do, or did, wrong? Girls now always bitch about the smallest things. He didn't pick up the phone? Maybe he was in the shower. He didn't pick up the mail? Maybe he forgot. It's not that serious, you don't need to get upset over nothing.
Honestly, I think guys are great. I personally have no problem with playing video games and watching sports or letting him have his own space. God knows I don't want him to be glued to me all day. I think girls need to realize that guys aren't as bad as people make them seem. Yes, sometimes they forget things and get on your last nerve, but don't you think we do the same things?
Everyone needs to just calm down and enjoy what they have. Not everyone is perfect. Everyone does things that annoy other people, that's life, but you don't need to make a big deal out of it. And we need guys. If we didn't have guys there would'nt be a future, and vice-versa.
I hope this article helped at least a litle bit. Guys don't need or deserve to be bashed and called out all the time about what they do wrong. How would you feel if people were constantly bashing you on how girls are so dumb because they spend so much time putting on make up when they take it off at the end of the night?
Guys, I'm sorry for all the things you get accused of, and for all the times you're called out on what you do. Just know, I care...and not all girls are so stuck up like that.
