My name's Vicky, live in West St Paul. I like younger guys & don't care to chat w/anyone older.

Likes: Honesty, nice eyes, cute smile, correct use of intelligent words, trustworthiness, clean-cut look, sincerity, animal lover, side burns, defined arm muscles, extroverts, can make me laugh out loud, likes to IM/text/talk on the phone.

Dislikes: Liars, multiple piercings, tattoos, smokers, drugs, posers/players, close mindedness, introverts, guys who are 'taken' (GF or married - NO WAY!) & no interracial.

40s, single/never married/no kids, (love kids, tho & have NO issues w/single Dads!), 5'8", dark blonde hair mid length, blue eyes, no tatts, ears pierced, 2 Nephews, cuddling, & love going to movies on opening nite, extrovert, star gazing, texting/IM, dogs, artichokes, sunshine on my skin, talking on the ph, the lake, freshly baked bread, long drives, dancing, color purple, kissing, smell of fresh cut grass, cold coffee drinks, & the feeling I know sum1 likes me! I'm more than U probably think I am & I thrive on attention....

I don’t lie – I despise liars - so don’t even bother messaging me if U think you're just the sly 1 who wants to get something no matter how it hurts me…….

Want some brutal honesty?
I snore, I’m a self proclaimed neat freak but sometimes live like a slob, I hate being lonely & seek attention constantly, I’m not a skinny Barbie-doll, I don’t like raunchy movies, I speed when I’m driving but I always wear my seat belt, I sleep with my contacts in, multiple piercings & tattoos turn me off, I eat leftovers & am religious about recycling, I’m extremely over emotional ( I cry & get all weepy when I’m sad or worried something will go wrong ), I like cold beer, I’ve called in sick to work when I wasn’t sick , I type in IM & e-mail like I text sometimes just like a 12 year old, I wear my heart on my sleeve ( trust me, I’ve tried to rip it off for my own protection but it just won’t budge ), I don’t like to share everything – I like to be greedy with some things in my life, I love animals but cats – eh,…not so much, I’m an Auntie & love my Nephews more than all my exes combined, I’ve been engaged before, I talk too much & never shut up but I get shy sometimes when asked about my innermost feelings, & finally…..I’m not the type to separate physical, mental & emotional – they are as connected for me as the dots in a child’s puzzle book just waiting to be linked…..my thoughts for someone combined w/the time spent & any physical ‘fun’ means I already ‘like them’ like them emotionally & I become attached quickly when I see what want & like; it means I don’t take those things lightly & I actually care about things & about someone I’m interested in – I don’t want to be treated as a number; I don’t want to feel as though I am at the bottom of someone’s ‘list’; I don’t want to feel like I have unknown competition for a guy’s thoughts, feelings, or emotions & when I trip I fall hard & fast & pray on the way down I don’t get hurt.

My heart is precious to me – I try to protect it as much as I can so those who have proven in the past that they cannot be trusted may have hardened it a bit – please be patient – good things come to those who wait. So if you’re not completely freaked by my honesty & realize that I can be a complete dork but still be wonderfully giving & basically want the same things most of us are looking for (I said ‘most’, not all), then find me, message me, let me know what’s on YOUR mind now ok?