I realise I am not the only one that is unhappy on here ....and its true some will say if your not happy switch off like the TV when the programme is rubbish. I haven't closed down my pc and logged out of fubar in a long time but apart from a few good friends I cant see any point in keeping it on.
The few that do stop by my page, are those that I class real friends, they are the ones that actually notice what my status says ... empty friends are those that only notice my status when it says "auto 11s on" not that I've had that many the few I have received are from true friends:-)
Fake friends are those that say .... "oh why did you delete me? " - "read my profile which explains why you were deleted!" I could roll of those empty friends those that dont come by for days/weeks and then get an auto so send me a comment and attach on the bottom of it a msg " auto 11s on @ " !! - you know who you are!!
I will rate "real friends" with autos because they still stop by when they dont have them too! but I am fed up with my SB being clogged up with a link that goes to an auto, not even "hi" just a link!!
Everyone has a choice and my choice is to ignore those with autos that are not real friends, but it saddens me to the point that I wonder if it is even worth having a VIP, I love art and searching through deviant art for new stuff, at one time I used to get people say to me they enjoyed what I had uploaded in fact you could guarantee as I uploaded them they would be rated ... now its a handful of the same ole same .. the rest dont bother so as I say why have a vip when all it gives you is to rate an 11 instead of a 10, and not to even look at my pics now?
As Gypsy Soul and Sharon have pointed out in their blogs and mumms this site has gone all money mad! its not about fun now like in cherry tap days... I spoke to someone the other day who said she had gone over her credit card limit due to buying blings and HH's and then asked her husband if she could use his who said no! she admitted she might have an addiction!! id say she has a bad one! we are in a recession and this site has exploited some of that ... it'd be nice to think after Christmas that the autos were more scarce to get, like have one under the fu tree, and one on a birthday say?
Part of me wants to go ... but the few friends i do have on here make me stay ... to those thankyou for your friendship .... without them and Porl I'd feel totally alone on here now ... its just changed so much .......
